Relaxation
Use this breathing exercise to relax and uncover a sense of stillness beneath whatever thoughts, feelings, or external distractions you might be facing.
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Believe it or not, relaxation is readily available for us. Yet, oftentimes, it can feel like a distant stranger. In this practice, we use the breath as a way to connect to that deeper sense of relaxation and stillness that's usually beneath our many thoughts, feelings, and sensations. Sometimes you can think, I'll relax when I do this, or how can I relax when I have so many things to do? And what we're doing here is relaxing with what is. Letting go of striving, of doing, to just be, because we may come here wanting to relax, or with the goal to be relaxed, and realize as soon as we close our eyes, it seems impossible. So whatever arises in this practice today, we'll use the breath to meet our thoughts, feelings, sensations with a sense of spaciousness, allowing us to connect to a greater sense of relaxation. So taking a moment here just to get comfortable, sitting upright or lying down, whatever feels best for you and your body. And just notice how you're arriving to this practice today. Maybe there's an emotion present, a thought, a sensation. Just noticing it, not judging it, or thinking too much about it. And then inviting you now to take three deep breaths, breathing in through the nose, expanding the belly, and breathing out through the mouth. On the next exhale, if you'd like, slowly closing the eyes, returning the breath back to its natural rhythm, noticing the body soften, and sink further into the cushion or floor beneath you. And just taking a moment here to check in with your senses, like noticing any sounds around you in your space. And then getting clear on your intention for today. Identifying what your purpose is for doing this exercise. And bringing to mind others in your life who will benefit from you being here. Remembering that the intention here isn't to try, or to force the sense of relaxation, but more to relax with what is. Gently guiding the focus now back to the body, and scanning the body from head to toe. Noticing any areas of discomfort, or restlessness in the body. And also noticing where the body feels more relaxed. Again, not thinking about it too much, just noticing what's there, and allowing it to be as it is. Once you reach the soles of the feet, resting the focus on the breath now. And just gently noticing how you're breathing. Noticing the quality of the breath, and what the breath feels like in the body, that rising and falling sensation. And to help connect us to a greater sense of relaxation in the mind and in the body, let's breathe in through the nose to the count of two, and breathe out through the mouth to the count of four. Making sure we're breathing into the belly slowly and deeply. Maybe placing a hand on the stomach if that's helpful. So breathing in for one, two, and breathing...
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A former Buddhist monk, Andy has guided people in meditation and mindfulness for 20 years. In his mission to make these practices accessible to all, he co-created the Headspace app in 2010.
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Frequently asked questions
Relaxation doesn’t always come easily or naturally for most of us, due to the busyness of life and the busyness of the mind. Even when we’re on vacation, it can take a few days to unwind. Getting better at relaxation takes practice, and that’s why a relaxation meditation is a good place to start because it cultivates stillness and calmness, even if it’s only for 10 minutes a day. That calm is cultivated by sitting somewhere comfortable, closing your eyes, and focusing on the breath — that’s all there is to it. No matter how many or how often thoughts or feelings arise, you simply acknowledge them and return your attention to the breath. Rinse and repeat. With practice, meditation becomes the gateway to relaxation, for mind, body, and soul.
A relaxation meditation induces what is called “the relaxation response”. By using the breath to anchor awareness in the moment, meditation is a tool that’s been shown to help manage and ease stress because it stimulates the parasympathetic nervous system and, as a result, stops the release of stress hormones like cortisol. Your heart rate decreases and your blood pressure lowers, and you start to feel calmer. A 2018 study found that people who used the Headspace app for 10 days saw a 12% decrease in stress; after 30 days, they reported a 32% decrease.
When you truly relax and sleep, the mind drifts into a place of non-awareness. For a lot of people catching their Zzz’s, they disappear into a dream state. With meditation, there is an intention to stay alert, awake, and focused (on whatever object of focus is being used) as you bring your full presence to the present moment. This way, the mind stays anchored to a place of awareness. A relaxation meditation seeks to find that sweet spot between relaxation and focus — relaxed enough to ease down but focused enough not to fall asleep.
One of the simplest ways to relax is to take some deep diaphragmatic breaths, also called belly breathing. By shifting your breathing rate, you stimulate the parasympathetic nervous system, and trigger a calming response. The other way is to rely on a relaxation meditation (which has the same calming effect on the nervous system) because you are focused on the breath to keep you anchored to the present moment, letting go of all distractions. Simply sit somewhere comfortable, close your eyes, take a few deep breaths to start with, and then return to your natural rhythm of breathing. Place your attention on each breath — the rise and fall of the chest — and use that rhythm as the object of focus to return to each time a distracting thought arises.
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